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Before you decide
Can I speak with Hector or Marcus first?
Yes. Request a call and share your preferred availability. Hector or Marcus can talk through the week, accommodation and payment options before you decide.
Who else is coming?
We do not share the list. Twenty men, each vouched for by someone who sat in the circle before him or by the founders themselves. You were invited by someone who knows you; that is usually the real answer to the question.
What kind of men come?
Founders, operators and fathers who want time away from daily demands. Most are between thirty-five and sixty. Some take part in the ceremonies and some do not; both share the week.
Can I bring a partner?
This November retreat is for twenty men. A February 2027 circle is forming; ask Hector or Marcus about its plans.
Can I pass my invitation to a friend?
The site and your code are yours alone. Every invitation carries one vouch instead: one name, one line on why him, sent to the founders. If it fits, he receives his own envelope and his own code. Never a forwarded link.
Who will know I attended?
The twenty men and the team. The guest list is never published; there is no photography or recording in ceremony spaces; group photographs elsewhere are opt-in; nothing said in circle leaves it. The confidentiality agreement binds us the same way it binds you.
The week
What does a day look like?
Movement in the morning, coached to your assessment. Time on the land and the water. Every meal at the lodge table. The evening fire, together. The one thing that is not optional is dinner and the fire. The full day is unveiled at breakfast.
Why do you not publish the schedule?
The detailed schedule is shared at breakfast. The seven-day outline is available on The Week. Ask about anything that affects your decision, including ceremonies, health, costs and practical arrangements, before you commit.
How fit do I need to be?
Fit enough to walk the land: trails, beach, some hills, humidity. Your Day-1 assessment scales everything else to you. Team challenges are done shoulder to shoulder, not against a stopwatch. Tell us about injuries or mobility before you decide, not on the land.
I have never surfed.
Pan Dulce is a forgiving right-hand point in warm water, five minutes from the lodge. Mick matches the instruction and the conditions to your level. Like everything else, it is invitational.
What is Controlled Drowning?
This is the name used for Mick’s breath-hold water sessions, planned one man at a time in shallow water with an instructor. Ask about the format, instructor qualifications, individual suitability and support before deciding whether to join.
What is the Infinity Delta protocol?
A thirty-minute Day 1 assessment, daily physical practice adapted to you, and a fifteen-minute Day 6 review. You take home a personal programme, with two follow-up sessions and four weeks of optional check-ins. These are included in your retreat. See the full programme.
Is there alcohol?
No. The week is alcohol-free and free of recreational drugs for everyone, whether or not you join the ceremonies. Guest guidelines cover the days before you travel.
What food is provided?
Three meals a day from the lodge kitchen — most of it grown on the farm or landed nearby — plus one late feast. Some mornings are fasted by design; you are told the night before. Dietary needs and allergies go into your intake form after the deposit so the kitchen can plan for you individually.
Can I stay reachable?
The properties have Starlink, although connectivity can vary. Ceremony spaces are phone-free and we ask for phones away at the table and the fire. Your preparation pack gives your family the founders' number for anything urgent.
What should I pack?
A full guide arrives after your deposit. The short version: November is warm and humid with rain most afternoons, so light natural fabrics, a rain layer, trail shoes that can get wet, reef-safe sunscreen, repellent, a headlamp and a refillable bottle. Yoga mats, towels and a ceremony clothing set are provided.
Are massages included?
Spa treatments run from Day 2, booked in advance: $100 USD per ninety-minute treatment on top of your tier price, about twenty slots across the week. They are the one on-property extra.
The medicine
Are the ceremonies required?
No. Every ceremony is optional. A confidential medical disclosure is required; screening is optional and strongly recommended. Men who participate and those who opt out share the rest of the week. Read about your choices.
What exactly is offered?
The three proposed practices are Kambo with Hapé, Bufo (5-MeO-DMT), and psilocybin. Each is optional. The Ceremonies page explains the proposed formats and support. Discuss risks and individual suitability with the physicians and facilitators before deciding.
Why is there no ayahuasca?
Ayahuasca is not part of the proposed programme. Discuss each practice, your medications and individual suitability with the physicians before deciding. See the proposed practices.
I take medication. Is that a problem?
Use the confidential medical disclosure to tell the physicians about your medications and health history. Ask them about the proposed practices before deciding. Do not change or stop any prescribed medication because of anything on this site.
Is this safe?
No ceremony is free of risk and no outcome is promised. A confidential medical disclosure is required; screening is optional and strongly recommended. Ask the physicians and facilitators about individual suitability, protocols and support. Review the participation agreement and ask about the approved research dossier before deciding.
What if I have a hard experience?
Discuss how the team supports a difficult experience before choosing to participate. Ask what support is available during a session, after it and once you are home. No particular outcome or duration is promised.
What if nothing happens for me?
No particular experience or outcome is promised. Your assessments, physical practice and follow-up sessions are part of the retreat whether or not you join a ceremony.
Is it addictive?
Discuss questions about dependence, repeat use and personal risk with the physicians before deciding. This website cannot establish individual suitability.
Will this show on a drug test?
Testing requirements vary. If you are subject to workplace or other drug testing, confirm the requirements with the relevant testing provider and raise your questions with the physicians before deciding. This website does not guarantee a test result.
What do I tell my family, or my work?
A private men’s wellness retreat in Costa Rica: six nights, movement, the ocean and a small group. Ceremonies are optional. Share as much detail as you are comfortable sharing, and ask the founders about any practical information your family needs.
What if the physicians decline me?
If the physicians decline you for the whole week, everything you have paid is refunded, regardless of payment stage. If they decline you for the ceremonies only, you may still come; the medicine opt-out credit applies, with the amount confirmed privately by the hosts.
Money & terms
What does the $500 hold?
Your $500 puts your name forward for one of twenty places. Hector and Marcus confirm selection; the deposit counts toward your retreat total. If you are not selected, it comes back in full. The deposit comes off your first stage payment. If you cannot attend before your first stage payment, the $500 returns in full.
How is the price paid?
Both options begin with a $500 deposit, which counts toward your retreat total. Direct payments receive the 15% founding discount: reach 25% within seven days of your deposit, 75% by October 15, and 100% by October 30. Commas uses the full retreat price; after the deposit is confirmed, discuss financing the remaining balance with Hector or Marcus. Approval and repayment terms are set by the provider. Compare payment options. Monthly payment options available* *Additional fees apply to monthly payment plans. Ask Hector or Marcus for the available terms.
What if I have to withdraw after paying?
Before your first stage payment, the deposit returns in full. After a stage is paid it is not refunded as cash — the land and the team are reserved on a fixed schedule — but it becomes a credit toward a later circle, subject to availability and any price difference. A physician decline for the whole week is refunded whatever the stage. If the hosts cancel, all payments are refunded within 14 days. If they postpone, you may choose a full refund or transfer. For postponement caused by events beyond their reasonable control, a refund may deduct itemised, unrecoverable third-party costs; you may choose a transfer instead.
What is included?
Everything on property is included — every meal, class, ceremony, transfer and the boat day. Spa treatments are the one on-property extra, booked in advance. Off property, three things are your own: your flights both ways, travel insurance, and the optional pre-retreat screening.
Can I opt out of the medicine and still come?
Yes. Discuss an opt-out credit with Hector or Marcus before paying your balance. The amounts shown on Your Response do not include that credit. Everything else in the week is unchanged. Review your stay and payment options.
After the week
What happens after the week?
Before you leave the land, the team reviews your Day-6 assessment and personal practice with you and books your two follow-up sessions. For your first four weeks home you can take a weekly check-in with one of the trip leaders. All of it is included; none of it is compulsory. And the circle stays a circle.
When is the next circle?
February 2027. If this November is not yours, say so on Your response — no explanation required — and your vouch remains yours to use.

Your journey, in order.
Book flights only once your seat is confirmed.
Your international flights to San José, then Sansa to Puerto Jiménez and back.
The concierge helps you time both flights. Ground transfers between the airstrip and the properties are included.
Documents & preparation.
A passport valid for six months beyond November 20, and proof of an individual travel-medical policy that covers what you plan to join. Refundable fares or trip cover are sensible; airline refunds are separate from the retreat’s terms. Check entry requirements for your nationality with the concierge.
- International flight
Home → San José
13–14 NovemberFly into San José (SJO) by the evening of 13 November, or early enough on the 14th to connect.
- Sansa connection
San José → Puerto Jiménez
Under an hourSansa SJO → PJM, under an hour, booked with the concierge’s help.
- Ground transfer
Puerto Jiménez → Cabo Matapalo
IncludedGround transfers between the airstrip and the properties are included.
- Your stay
Cabo Matapalo
- Return journey
Cabo Matapalo → Home
20 NovemberReturn to Puerto Jiménez for Sansa PJM → SJO on 20 November, then your international flight. Coordinate both with the concierge before you book.